A single
sister in her 40s and her two single daughters were visiting my mom. I would
say her daughters are in their early 20s. My mom got sleepy and we put her to
bed but the three sisters stayed to finish their drinks.
Then they
got into an argument that escalated into yelling matches. I didn’t get involved
but the subject of the argument prodded me to be quiet and listen. (BTW) my mom
is almost completely deaf. So I wasn’t worried about them waking her up.
Evidently
the fight had been ongoing. The daughters want to date some guys that are not
JWs. The mother reminded them that the direction by the “Slave” was to marry a
brother- and not just any brother –but a brother who was a, “ministerial
servant”
Well both
daughters were trying to reason with the mother and letting her know, that most
of the brothers in the circuit are NOT ministerial servants. And those that
are, can’t even take care of themselves financially, in fact most of them are
losers. And the brothers that did go to school and are ministerial servants
usually pick sisters in their teens, beauty queens, to date and marry. And the brothers that are
not ministerial servants, most of them have girlfriends that are not JWs.
The mother
shot back and told them if they wanted Jehovah’s blessing in the marriage they
needed to follow His direction through the “Slave”. Otherwise, the marriage is
doom to fail.
One of the daughter
shot back and said, “You mean like dad left us, He was an elder”
The mom ran
out the door and the daughters followed. I waited to see if they were coming
back but I heard the car sip away.
I asked my
mom who they were and she said they are new ones that have moved into the hall.
I wonder how
many young sisters are going through this problem.